Yamas Continued
Bracharcharya
Bracharcharya has been translated as non-sensual, self-restraint.. I don’t believe that this means that I have to become a monk or an aesthetic. It is self-containment, bringing our energies inward for greater self control.
The idea of self-containment runs counter to our Western society where appearance and appeal mean so much. Both are selling factors as performers. It is important that we dress attractively and are well groomed no matter whether we are male or female, young or more “seasoned,” or a knock out or more average. It more important that we use our appearance in a way that allows our audience to feel at ease with us.
There are some who sell magic as a means to pick up potential partners. It goes without saying that this runs counter to Bracharcharya.
Reflection In Action:
- Where does your energy flow in your performances and in your daily life?
- Have you or do you use magic as a pick up tool?
Aparigraha
The last Yama, Aparigraha, is often translated as non-greed but another translation, non-attachment, feels closer to the original sentiment to me. Not being greedy is important as it encourages us to perform at benefits and fundraisers that are aligned with our values for free or substantially less than our normal fees. It has been my experience that opportunities arise from working these events. Maybe not immediately but at some point as part of our Karma.
“No action is ever an isolated event. Always, it invites from the universe a reaction that corresponds exactly to the type and force of energy behind the deed.”
Parmahansa Yogananda
Non-attachment is not being attached to the results of our actions. Whether the desired result is audience reaction or clinging to success even if it is rightly yours. Attachment holds us back. It keeps us closed rather than expansive. We live in fear of losing what we have achieved. Attachment limits our ability to succeed as we are stuck to the past and prevents growth.
Reflection In Action:
- Ask yourself: do I give to get something or do I give freely of my time and talents?
- What attachments are holding me back? Am I willing to cut the bindings?
